{"id":1349,"date":"2022-10-16T12:25:54","date_gmt":"2022-10-16T12:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.design42.com\/blog\/?p=1349"},"modified":"2023-05-21T13:14:28","modified_gmt":"2023-05-21T13:14:28","slug":"should-it-be-i-or-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.design42.com\/blog\/should-it-be-i-or-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Should it be I or Me?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just received a message telling me about an error on one of my blogs. The person told me I had used \u201cme\u201d when it should be \u201cI.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Sometimes it can be tricky to determine if you should be using &#8220;me&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8221; in a sentence. Use the pronoun &#8220;I&#8221; when the person speaking is doing the action, either alone or with someone else. Use the pronoun &#8220;me&#8221; when the person speaking is receiving the action of the verb in some way, either directly or indirectly.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.britannica.com\/dictionary\/eb\/qa\/When-to-Use-Me-and-I-\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">When to use Me or I<br \/>\nThe Britannica Dictionary<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Most people have no problem at all knowing which pronoun to use as the subject in a sentence.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">I went for a walk. <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.design42.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/check.jpg?resize=21%2C20&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"21\" height=\"20\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Debbie and I went for a walk. <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.design42.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/check.jpg?resize=21%2C20&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"21\" height=\"20\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t change when there are two people.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Me and Debbie went for a walk. <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.design42.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/x.jpg?resize=21%2C20&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"21\" height=\"20\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you remove the \u201cand Debbie,\u201d you can easily see that it sounds silly.<\/p>\n<p>Once the pronoun is moved to the subject of the sentence, it evidently becomes trickier.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Would you like to go for a walk with me? <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.design42.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/check.jpg?resize=21%2C20&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"21\" height=\"20\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The predicate or predicated personal pronoun is me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Would you like to go for a walk with I? <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.design42.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/x.jpg?resize=21%2C20&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"21\" height=\"20\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That just sound wrong, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u2026you should use the object pronoun &#8220;me&#8221;. In each sentence, &#8220;me&#8221; is the object of a preposition.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.britannica.com\/dictionary\/eb\/qa\/When-to-Use-Me-and-I-\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">When to use Me or I<br \/>\nThe Britannica Dictionary<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t change when another noun is added to the sentence.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Would you like to go for a walk with Debbie and me? <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.design42.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/check.jpg?resize=21%2C20&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"21\" height=\"20\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Would you like to go for a walk with Debbie and I? <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.design42.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/x.jpg?resize=21%2C20&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"21\" height=\"20\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The simplest way to see whether you should use &#8220;I&#8221; or &#8220;me,&#8221; is to remove the \u201cDebbie and.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Would you like to go for a walk with I? <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.design42.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/x.jpg?resize=21%2C20&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"21\" height=\"20\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Removing the \u201cDebbie and\u201d makes it obvious.<\/p>\n<h2>Should you correct other people\u2019s grammar?<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s annoying. If someone tells you something and you interrupt to correct the way it is told, it really sucks the fun out of a conversation. And frequently the corrector is incorrect.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">I just love sanderlings. Those are sand pipers.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Aren\u2019t the terns funny looking? Those are sea gulls.<\/p>\n<p>Not an enjoyable walk on the beach. Personally, I don\u2019t welcome the argument. You can call them whatever you want.<\/p>\n<p>There is actually a form of OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder) called Grammatical Pedantry Syndrome or GPS. Do you have GPS?<\/p>\n<p>I appreciate it when people contact me to let me know I have an error. It happens.<\/p>\n<p>In this case, I had used the pronoun correctly. But if one person thought it looked wrong and went to all the effort to let me know it was wrong, there are probably more who also thought it looked wrong. So I just took the offensive sentence out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just received a message telling me about an error on one of my blogs. The person told me I had used \u201cme\u201d when it should be \u201cI.\u201d Sometimes it can be tricky to determine if you should be using &#8220;me&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8221; in a sentence. 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